Part 4 - Practical Numerology
LESSON 28
Choosing a name for the child

When planning to have a baby, parents often do not know how their internal preparedness for this step corresponds to the way things really are, or whether they need such a responsibility at all. Such things are usually only made clearer with time.

But there is one thing future moms and dads are absolutely sure of from the start: they are going to find a perfect name for their child, and they do not need anybody’s advice in this. They have long thought everything over and have long decided everything.

The very first sleepless night often disillusions young parents about the validity of their desire to have children. However, they may never know about the mistakes made when choosing a name for the child. Despite the fact that the consequences of these mistakes will constantly manifest themselves, in the form of big and small problems. But who would suspect that the name is behind it all?

Often when difficulties arising at every step become irresolvable a matured offspring hears from his mother something along the lines of: “If I hadn’t given birth to you myself, I would have thought you weren’t our child.”

This means that the older and younger generations have diametrically opposed views on life, their wishes and desires do not intersect anywhere, and parents are unable to comprehend the nature of abilities and, consequently, aspirations of their own children. Why? Because they did not build a foundation for future mutual understanding when they gave the child a name.

The conflict of parents and children

Everyone should have their own life path, so the exact date of anybody coming into the world cannot be planned ahead – the universe has taken care of that. But if, for instance, a father wants his son to follow in his footsteps – inherit a well-organized business or make a career in the army – he should make sure that his son’s abilities and desires coincide with his own. This result is not difficult to achieve. It would be enough to choose the first and second name so that in the end Expression Number and Soul Urge Number of the son correspond to the same indicators of the father. After all, their last name is the same.

Therefore, having spent an hour or two doing the calculations, a sagacious father will not only pass the necessary qualities on to his son, but also ensure their mutual complete understanding in the future.

The relationship between the mother and the son would be equally smooth: the woman should have no problem with the “little copy” of her husband. This is especially important during the early stages of child development, when the influence of the mother is predominant.

Filling the missing qualities

The task of such a targeted numerological study is made somewhat more complicated when parents want to instill in a child qualities that they themselves lack. And here everything depends on what kind of qualities, according to the parents, will allow the son to surpass the father.

Suppose a colonel-father has significant strategic abilities and can manage people exceptionally well. However, he has to put effort into making an impression on his subordinates big enough for his rank and position. And because of this reason he has not become a general.

Therefore, the son should be named so that his Personality Number, determined by the consonants of his full name, is different from his father’s Personality Number. In this particular case numbers 1 and 8 would be preferable.

The abundance and variety of English names allows us to get the desired result without compromising the other necessary qualities. The nature of the child and his relationships with parents would not change. He would just be perceived differently.

“A different destiny”

The situation is completely different when parents are aware that the qualities they possess are not enough for any kind of successful self-realization. And their modest achievements become further confirmations of this fact.

Naturally, they wish for their child to have a different, brighter destiny. And to lay a foundation for the development of the required qualities through the numerological selection of a name is, as a matter of principle, not difficult. It would be much harder to come to terms with the results of such a choice.

In particular, parents who do not possess creative abilities but have instilled them in their child should be prepared for the fact that they will lose their emotional connection with him/her at an early age. And he/she will, with the cruelty inherent in children, demonstrate them his/her superiority every time. And if they decide not to impede his/her freedom of expression, they will have to live with the negative consequences of such a decision.

An even more complicated case is when parents, tired of “living on the sidelines”, wish to raise a leader. Perhaps they will succeed, but the behavior of such a child will become uncontrollable from childhood. Moreover, force methods of influence are absolutely unacceptable in this kind of situations, because they can cause irreparable damage to the child’s psyche.

Do not get me wrong: instilling the necessary qualities in a child through the correct choice of a name is possible and has to be done. And if not the parents, who should be able to use this opportunity? But this must be done with taking full responsibility for any possible consequences. After all, actions like these are always a conscious sacrifice.

Peace inside a big family

All parents with two or more children dream of their children loving and supporting each other throughout their lives. At the same time, for purely selfish reasons, they want each child to have their own unique talents and abilities.

In this situation names must be selected with great care: talents are talents, but perhaps smooth relationships inside the family are more important. The line between dissimilarity and incompatibility is incredibly thin.

If you already have a child and you are expecting a second one, wait until he is born before choosing a name for him. Then compare the Life Path Numbers of the firstborn and the newborn. If those do not coincide, then your children will have different goals in life and will not fight over the inheritance.

Therefore, the name of the newborn should be compatible with the name of the sibling according to the Expression Number, then the older offspring will gladly help and support the younger one. However, the Soul Urge Numbers should be different. Otherwise, battles over toys are inevitable.

If it turns out that the Life Path Numbers of your children are the same, the name of the second child should be chosen so that the Expression Numbers are different. Similar means of achieving identical goals almost guarantee a conflict. Be guided by these principles every time you have another child, and bear in mind that the names of all children should be well connected with the names of the parents. Then peace and love will reign supreme in your family.

Home task:

Conduct a numerological study of the names of your family members in accordance with the rules above. If the mistakes have already been made, you will at the very least know what awaits you in the future.

Sincerely,
Manuel Cooper
Numeroscop team

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